Hot? or Not?
by Erika Rasmusson Janes
From gangsta poses to dirty dancing, real teens dish on all things prom
KATIE
Age: 17
HOME STATE:
Connecticut


LANITA
Age: 18
HOME STATE:
Illinois


GENTRY
Age: 17
HOME STATE:
Kansas


GABRIELLE
Age: 16
HOME STATE:
New Jersey


Revealing Dresses?

NOT Your prom dress is supposed to be classy; you shouldn’t look like you’re going to the beach. NOT If you can’t do it right, it just ends up looking trashy, not classy. NOT You don’t have to reveal yourself to look good. The more you wear clothing that suits you, the better you look and the more attention you get. NOT When you’re dancing, something might happen and you might reveal something no one else is supposed to see. That’s a big no-no.

Matching your date?

HOT I think it’s nice to match. People can tell that you’re together—it’s a very clean look and ­really cool for pictures. NOT It’s traditional to match him to some extent, but it shouldn’t be to the point where he looks like a magician and you look like an assistant. HOT I definitely think you should have matching ensembles because it just looks classy. If you clash, then what’s the fun of going together? HOT You look so much cuter together and you look like you belong with each other when you do this. I absolutely love it!

Girls asking the guys to prom?

HOT Go ahead! You don’t have to be old-fashioned. If you really like some­one, you shouldn’t have to worry or wait for the guy to ask you. HOT C’mon, people, it’s the new millennium. If you want to go with someone, then just ask. HOT Last year I asked a guy to prom. There really is no reason to be afraid. It has to be better than going with somebody you don’t like. NOT It’s just something I would never do. Maybe I’m a little old-fashioned but I think that should be the guy’s job.

Dirty dancing?

NOT To an extent, grinding is okay, but when you’re all up on one another, it makes other people uncomfortable and looks really sleazy. NOT I spent a lot of money on my dress. I can’t snag beads on your tux zipper. NOT I’m not saying you should stay five feet away from each other at all times, but don’t be all over each other either. NOT This is not the bedroom, people! And it certainly isn’t a strip club. I don’t want you to be grinding with your butt in my space.

Sunglasses at night?

HOT Awesome! I think it totally shows that you’re having a good time. It says you are a badass—and that’s exactly what you want people to think. HOT If you don’t have them on, you might go blind from all the cameras flashing. HOT It’s your prom—have fun! Besides, you’re supposed to look glamorous! HOT I think they’re cool. As long as they’re not those awful bug-like glasses. Seriously, who wants to go to prom looking like a big bug?

Hair extensions?

NOT I think they are overrated; you should work with the hair you have. They don’t look natural. Some people put hair extensions in to match their dress and that’s really gross. HOT If you can’t achieve it, weave it! I know I did and I looked great. HOT I think that hair extensions would be so cool! You should have fun and try new things on prom night; after all it only comes once a year! NOT Girls, you do not want to do a twirl or have someone accidentally pull on your hair and have a clump of fake hair come out. That’s just really embarrassing.

Gangsta poses in prom photos?

NOT I think a prom photo should be traditional—not goofy. You should smile and look nice. You don’t want to look back years from now and say, What was I thinking? NOT Prom is an evening of poise and elegance. Save those poses for your street clothes. NOT Why try to look like someone you are not? Just be yourself. NOT This is supposed to be a classy night for you and your friends. Don’t ruin it with all those stupid poses!

Asking another person’s date to dance?

HOT Everyone is there to have a good time. Unless it’s someone’s boyfriend, there is no reason why you shouldn’t dance with as many people as you would like. HOT You’re there to have fun. Besides, it’s your prom—not your wedding. HOT The entire point of prom is to mix and mingle, so why not dance with another person’s prom date? As long as they aren’t already in a relationship, it’s fine. HOT Even though you have a date, that doesn’t mean you’re stuck with him all night. After all, it’s not like you’re married to the guy.