Real Quinceañera: Your Quince Countdown
Here, everything you need to do and when to do it. Just print, share with your mom—and breathe. It will all get done!
1 to 2 Years Before
- Sit down with your parents to determine the type of quinceañera you want to have. Big? Small? In your backyard or at a hall?
- Choose your padrinos. Will they be contributing financially?
- Plan your budget.
- Set the date and book a church—if you’re planning to have a religious ceremony. (Be sure to contact the priest to find out parish requirements.)
- Create a planning binder to fill with ideas, magazine clippings and important contact info.
12 Months Before
- Choose your theme. Do you have a favorite color or flower? Movie or hobby? Let it be your inspiration.
- Visit reception sites and book one.
- Draft a preliminary guest list.
- Meet with event planners if you’ve decided to hire one.
9 Months Before
- Book your caterer (if the reception hall doesn’t have one on site), florist, DJ and/or band, photographer and/or videographer.
- Select your court of honor. Be sure the girls and/or boys and their parents understand the cost and commitment before agreeing to participate. You may want to have your parents talk it over with their folks before you ask.
- Start shopping for your dress.
6 Months Before
- Choose and purchase invitations (and coordinating thank-you notes if you want them) and party favors.
- Create a rehearsal schedule or hire a dance instructor/choreographer to help with your waltzes and other dances. The number of sessions you’ll need may vary based on size of court and complexity of routine.
- Arrange and organize a rehearsal for you, your court and everyone involved in the ceremonies.
3 Months Before
- Order your dress—if you haven’t already.
- Choose your court’s attire. Let them know the cost and where they can order everything.
- Secure transportation to and from the church and reception site.
- Finalize your guest list.
- Select tiara, shoes and other accessories.
- Schedule hair and makeup appointments if you plan to have them done professionally. Note: It’s always a good idea to have a practice run before the big day.
2 Months Before
- Mail invitations and create an RSVP list.
- Order your cake for the reception.
- Select gifts for your padrinos and attendants.
1 Month Before
- Finish final alterations on your dress if necessary.
- Write and practice your thank-you speech.
- Prepare a program for the ceremony.
1 Week Before
- Call vendors (photographer, florist, etc.) and confirm details.
- Give caterer final head count.
- Prepare seating chart and place cards.
- Tuck payments for vendors in envelopes.
- Make an “emergency kit.” Be sure to include safety pins, a needle and thread, breath mints, blotting papers, Band-Aids, double-sided fabric tape, tissues, etc.
- Treat yourself to an at-home facial and deep-conditioning hair mask.
- Make a checklist of all the items you’ll need for the church and/or reception ceremonies (candles, bible, rosary, etc.).
The Big Day
- Be sure to eat before the ceremony, and don’t forget to drink plenty of water. It’s a busy, exciting day, and you need lots of energy to look and feel your best.
- Head to your beauty appointments. (Note: Skin treatments and waxing appointments should be scheduled for a few days in advance.)
- Go over your checklist and make sure you have everything.
- Take a deep breath and have fun! Your quince is finally here!